A Fun Story about Spontaneous Hypnotism

So I was at a major computer/music/pop culture festival last week (MAGFEST, if you’re curious: http://www.magfest.org) and the topic of hypnosis came up multiple times in multiple venues. Hey, what can I say? When you start paying attention, it’s everywhere! Probably the most interesting was on a session in making “immersive” games. A lot of the discussion was on what makes a game immersive, when are you immersed in a game, and so forth. I try not to be that guy who only has a hammer and goes looking for nails, but after about twenty minutes, I just couldn’t take it any more and made a comment along these lines:

“I’m a hypnotherapist and I’d like to say that every single thing you’ve asked about how to immerse people in a game, or tell when they’re immersed, is exactly the same as the things we ask ourselves about how to hypnotize people, or tell when they’re hypnotized.”

This was prompted by someone commenting that while he loved the “story” or RPG games which everyone was using as examples of “immersive,” the only game that he’d ever really “lost” himself in was Katamari Damacy. (See: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Katamari_Damacy) Why did he get “immersed” in that and not in the RPG? Because he had a different modality of suggestibility than most gamers! Or, to be fair, than most gamers who play big-name titles. Given the popularity of games like Candy Crush, Puzzle and Dragons, Bejeweled, or even Tetris, I think it’s fair to say that there are probably many gamers whose minds are more easily engaged at the hypnotic level by pattern and repetition than by grandiosity and realism. (I myself like both.)

After the panel, I discussed it with the panelists, one of whom was a PhD level psychologist. While they do discuss hypnotism in psychology education, it’s usually not taken very seriously. She really seemed to accept, or at least be intrigued by, the idea that perhaps there were some pretty strong parallels between hypnotism, the models we create to explain it, and the way games affect gamers. So I felt pretty good about that.

One of the other attendees also asked me some questions after and again at another point, and I was sort of feeling like a hypno-vangelist. So after my last event of the day (LARP, and don’t even get me started on the hypnotic parallels there!) I undertook a little experiment. I went to the TechOps room (thanks, guys!) and got a piece of paper, a marker, and some gaffer tape. I then made a little sign which said “FREE DEMOS” and taped it to the messenger bag I was carrying so people would see it as I walked around. Keep in mind that it was already 2 AM Sunday morning at this point. I didn’t have any idea if it would work or not. But I had faith. So I walked around and waited to see what would happen.

It wasn’t two minutes before somebody asked me, “Free demos of what?”

Chalk one up for the power of suggestion! Everybody loves free, computer gamers love demos. Put them together and people can’t resist walking up to a total stranger at 2 in the morning to find out what’s going on! Not even if he’s a gray-bearded fellow in a suit walking around a pop-culture convention with a handwritten sign.

My reply was always the same: “Two things. First, that you can make total strangers walk up and talk to you if you put the word ‘free’ on a sign.” *pause a beat, watch their faces* “Second, I am a Certified Master Hypnotist and I am giving free demonstrations of the power of hypnosis. Would you like to try?”

Everybody reacted, and nobody laughed. The first two (men) looked somewhere between dubious and alarmed. Well, you get that with hypnosis – some people think it’s scary. It’s not, which is why I was hypno-vangelizing. But no hard feelings.

The third was a nice lady who looked fairly normal, as people walking around pop-culture conventions at two in the morning go: I would guess that she was in her thirties. We chatted for a moment and I offered to do a demonstration right there, just a bit off to the side. Lots of people watching (I wanted people to watch) and very reassuring for her that if I was up to no good, somebody would surely do something.

So I leaned her up against the wall and asked her some basic questions (health issues, a few suggestibility classfiers, things like that.) Then I just did a simple progressive induction and in less than two minutes she was in a light trance. I gave her some simple suggestions (that she’d be too heavy to move for a moment, for instance) and woke her up. She looked incredulous, but pleased. After that I demonstrated a rapid induction (Cerbone’s “Butterfly Effect”) and took her through a short visualization exercise.

Toward the end, by sheer chance, a hotel employee came up and started emptying trash cans into a big cart. It made a terrible racket! But she never stirred. Afterward, she just asked, “Did something happen while I was hypnotized? It seemed like I heard something strange.” That’s all that got through, even though the cart was less than ten feet away. Hypnosis is pretty amazing.

When we were done with the demonstration, I gave her some general life-affirming suggestions and waited for her to come fully out of trance. By the time I was done with my first volunteer and was sure she was safe to go off by herself (hypnosis is perfectly safe, but people can be a little spacey when they come out) it was nearly three, and I was running out of energy. So I went and got on the elevator to go to my room and hit the hay. But the night wasn’t over yet! I missed my floor on the elevator, and had to ride all the way down and all the way up again due to the crowds. As we neared my floor I heard it again: “Free demos of what?”

This time it was a young man who was accompanied by what I assumed was his girlfriend. I told him, and he looked incredulous. At first all he said was, “Really?” Meanwhile, his girlfriend’s eyes had gone huge.

“Yep,” I said. “Would you like to try? It won’t take long.”

At that point, between his being slightly drunk and wanting to impress his girlfriend, he decided he wanted to. (She obviously loved the idea, and asked him “Can we try?” more than once.) So we went and stood in a quiet hallway and I went through the setup with him. Just while I was asking him questions he started to look a little alarmed and said, “I can feel it happening!”

I of course didn’t look smug or anything (I would never do that.) I just kept going and when the setup was done, started doing a very subtle induction. After a minute or so, he jerked himself awake and said, “How do you DO that? It’s like a superpower!”

I assured him it was just practice, but he was starting to weird himself out. When I used waking suggestion to make him laugh uncontrollably, it made him even more convinced that I could hypnotize him. So he said, “Don’t put me to sleep!” I of course stopped right away: I’d never hypnotize someone without their consent. His girlfriend, meantime, was also laughing, because he had crumbled pretty fast.

So he said, “Try her!” (He’d already claimed she’d be easy to hypnotize.) So I asked her and she still wanted to try. It turned out that she was very into mindfulness meditation. So I made up a mindfulness induction right there on the spot and in a minute she was out like a light. After a convincer suggestion I woke her again and demonstrated some very simple hypnotic techniques. She was a wonderful subject and I think she really enjoyed herself.

Alas, at that point they got a phone call and had to go, so I gave her some wake-up suggestions, made sure she was okay, and headed off to bed. Final tally: two completely successful inductions and one coulda-had-him. (I could have done an instant on him and I’d bet anything it would have worked, but that wouldn’t have been right.) Not a bad scorecard for deciding to do spontaneous demonstrations at two in the morning!

Thanks for reading… and watch out for that guy with the “Free Demos” sign. You never know where he might turn up…